aggressive finding in sport there s 6 in close games there are less fouls committed because both sides are trying to not commit a foul and lose the game there s a home team advantage 1 reason people act out aggressively frustration failure to punish aggressive behavior in children your child has a better chance of growing up to be generally very aggressive the lax player that killed his girlfriend he had no discipline His aggressive behavior never ever went punished Could be why he behaved the way he did have to punish children in a reasonable way they ll learn to live within the rules suppress harsh behavior aggressiveness is punished seriously they re suppress aggressive behavior and act out later Bullying is a serious problem in our society way our parents are raising and punishing their kids Mary Clark boys teased her She eventually committed suicide goes back to Mazlow with love and affection Elizabeth always helped the underdog Hit big kid Sammy over the head with flute cause Sammy was picking on Billy and Billy was crying Parents can stop a kid from going too far if they re active in their kids lives aggressive behavior to inflict pain or harm on someone aggressive is a term used loosely should use assertive instead want your kid to be assertive and stand up for their own rights Stand up for themselves want them to be sensitive to other kids and respect other kids Told her kids to be nice assertive behavior is learned not letting others prey on you praise and reward independence and self reliance in children praise child for not being passive or submissive encourage kids to deal with stress o sports a fabulous way to do this Placed in a stressful situation and learn how to perform Win or lose they can handle situations not run away from conflict Teach kids that no one likes obnoxiousness assertiveness does not eliminate sensitivity it does not mean to be obnoxious most importantly want kids to be independent begins as early as age 2 mom and dad becoming assertive starts with approval by a relative person moms expecting sons to be independent do much better confidence to try things o not worried about failure independent do well in sports parents attitudes and own personal needs are predictive of child s experience o kids watch their parents assertive parents assertive o expect more of themselves kids will expect more of o must constantly communicate positive attitude towards children themselves achievement boys w o a father in their first 5 years have been found to be significantly less assertive in life sometimes less competitive both parents come down on boys who do not apply sex appropriate behavior saaddd Aisles are sex appropriate in Toys R Us o Study w her daughter Elizabeth Gave trucks to daughter to play with made the daddy truck mommy truck and baby truck praise kids in every situation for hard work not the end result don t ask kid if they won when they come back from game ask how they played if they had fun
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