Fam Serv 1010 1st Edition Lecture 18Outline of Last Lecture I. Attachment TheoryII. Bartholomew’s 4 CategoriesIII. Attachment Style influencesIV. Why is attachment important?Outline of Current Lecture I. Jealousy BasicsII. Who is more jealousIII. Who makes us jealousIV. What makes a person jealousV. What makes us jealousCurrent Lecture1.) Jealousy Basics- It is a blend of feelings, such as; hurt, anger, and fear.- Definition: Intense negative emotional reaction from a real or imagined threat to a valued relationship.- Idea 1: “intense negative emotion” perceived as a “red flag” alert when dating.- Idea 2: “imaginary threat” don’t have evidence for the feeling- Idea 3: “value a relationship” in order for jealousy to occur- Different from envy, desiring something that someone else has (wealth, shoes, car, clothes, etc…) 2.) Who is more jealous- Quite common in both genders.- The jealous person traits: - Most dependent on the relationship- Less “adequate” or “desirable”- Preoccupied attachment (clingy)- Neuroticism (pessimistic) - Traditional gender roles3.) Who makes us jealous- A friend or the “ex” boyfriend/girlfriend- Rival with high “mate value”- Someone better than you in ways that you find importantThese notes represent a detailed interpretation of the professor’s lecture. GradeBuddy is best used as a supplement to your own notes, not as a substitute.- What is high “mate value”-Men: dominance (other men who are self-confident, assertive, rich, etc)-Women: physical attractiveness4.) What makes a person jealous- Physical attractiveness- Long frequent conversations- Sharing hopes and dreams with others5.) What makes us jealous- David Buss cross-cultured study- Men: sexual infidelity- Women: emotional infidelity- Findings “fit” with evolutionary ideas-results replicated- Critique of Buss:-a forced choice methodology- Bottom line-both types of infidelity
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