Cms 357 1st Edition Lecture 12Current LectureI. Defining RolesCommon Characteristics of a Good Relationship A. Compatibility- couple agree on things they see as important- when your demographic variables contrast you are more likely to get divorced, these variables have to matter to the couple- Religion, food, differences in socio-economic B. Conflict- both partners need to recognize that the conflict is happening – 1. should be recognized2. should be acknowledged3. should be dealt with calmly4. even if you disagree make the person feel listened to5. try and empathize with the other person and really listen (show the other you understand)II. Dealing with ProblemsA. Dimensions1. Constructive- Destructive2. Active- Passive B. Type of Responses Active/ Destructive: Exit (you could physically exit, actively do something to create distance)Active/ Constructive- Voice- dissatisfied with the relationship you will express it, you do something to actively improve the relationship- this would be: talking about the conflictPassive/ DestructiveThese notes represent a detailed interpretation of the professor’s lecture. GradeBuddy is best used as a supplement to your own notes, not as a substitute.Passive/ Constructive- Loyalty- having a hard time at work- but stay around, being quiet is also an important
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