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William James
prefers "self" over "personality"
multiple selves
-material self -spiritual self -social selves
Material Self
The element of the self reflected in all the tangible things you own
spiritual self
essence of who you really are; sense of free will
when do infants begin to recognize their imagine in a mirror?
18-24 months
Rouge Test
measurement of self-recognition -put a spot of rouge on kids face and put them in front of a mirror *must touch their face**
self-schema
organized set of experiences and knowledge that guides our self cognition
theory of social comparison
people compare themselves to others to determine worth and competence (under conditions of uncertainty)
distinctiveness postulate
people focus on their unusual traits during self-analysis
objective self awareness (OSA)
self-focused attention on personal behaviors and beliefs
OSA
general tendency for research participants to become self-critical during objective self-aware state
Beaman et al
Halloween study -candy placed in front of mirror or no mirror -kids see reflection: OSA (take less)
jurors in front of mirrors are more likely to...
demand stricter punishment for defendant
cameras in the courtroom
OSA juries
cameras during exam
no cheating
alcohol & OSA
takes us out of OSA states
Situated Identities
Role of social situation on the self-schema --> self awarness
private self-consciousness
attention to non-public, introspective aspects of self
Public Self-Consciousness
projecting a positive image to others → attempt to control one's social image
Role of Guilt (private anxiety) vs embarassment (public anxiety)
in situtated identities
ingratiation
use of "spontaneous" and well-constructed flattery -goal= affection
Vonk
Subjects with high vs low self esteem have different cognitive responses to flattery
intimidation
aggressive strategy designed to dominate others -goal= fear
self-promotion
boasting behavior (or extreme modesty) focused on personal accomplishments -goal= appear competent
basking in reflective glory (BIRG)
act of playing up our associations with high status people or events
cutting off reflected failure
distancing ourselves from low-status people or events
self-monitoring
tendency to regulate one's social behavior based on either social demands or internal factors
high self-monitors
adapt social behavior to fit situations and public expectations
low self-monitors
ignore social demands and act based on personal values and beliefs
Trends in Self Monitoring Research: HSM
-Better at facial expression and producing emotions on demand and "reading" social situations. -More concerned with the physical appearance of partner.
Trends in Self Monitoring Research: LSM
less likely to be persuaded by authority
self-disclosure
process of revealing intimate information about ourselves to others
Strangers on a train
people are more likely to tell complete strangers things about yourself you normally would not
Stages in Development of Self-Disclosure
Stage 1: Orientation "stranger stage" and exchange basic, superficial information Stage 2: Exploratory Stage "acquaintances" give experiences, anecdotes, not emotional Stage 3: Affective Exchange "friend" emotional stuff, likes, dislikes, motivations Stage 4: Stable Exchange no awk…
stage 1
orientation
stage 2
exploratory exchange
stage 3
affective exchange
stage 4
stable exchange
orientation
"stranger stage" and exchange basic, superficial information
exploratory exchange
"acquaintances" give experiences, anecdotes, not emotional
"acquaintances" give experiences, anecdotes, not emotional
"friend" emotional stuff, likes, dislikes, motivations
stable exchange
no awkwardness or judging, can literally say anything with no unstable reaction. Most people never make it to this stage.
norm of reciprocity
expectation that both sides should make intimate self-disclosures
self-disclosure & relationships
in early conversation vs later: strong influence on attraction

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