FINAL REVIEW· Freud’s stageso 1st stage: birth to teething Oral stage : period when infant is forming bond w/ mom§ Ends at weaning (1 yr) when taken off breasto 2nd - Anal stage: potty traininga.  2 Parts:i. Anal incorporative (intentive)ii. Anal Sadistic· Mothers become obsessed with reduction of feces with their children.· If bowel movements are not on time, mothers go bananas.· This teaches the infant to hold the poop so that he/she can still get a lot of attention from mother.¨ Freud: We are born reactive beings. We have little conscious awareness of things to start with. We are reflexive animals.¨ Subject to the built in needs of the body, which are not conscious, he called these functions: ID.(Anal incorporative)Ø New functions are Ego: Functions are concerned only with getting what the infant wants. They arenot subject to any moral principles. You see growth of ego functions during anal period.Ø Emphasis on potty train totally misplaced because physiologically, the infant do not have cortical control of their sphincters. Mommy is the one being trained. At 15 months, infant usually gains cortical control, and mothers go insane, and it is then that potty training can commence properly.Ø An infant can also get a lot of attention by pooping at wrong times and wrong places.Ø When potty training is complete, it is the end of anal stage.Ø Individuals who remain fixated at anal stage are anal retentive (Very compulsive about everything being in order, rules are to be followed exactly, and everything should be in its place). If fixation is severe, it is called neurosis. The anal retentive is called a neat freak.¨ The other character is the total slob (anal sadistic) clothes everywhere, dirty. Obnoxious.§ If fixation, you can be neat freak or messy or obnoxious§ Anal sadistico 3rd- phallic stage: male infants (4-5) have sexual feelings towards mother§ Oedipus complex§ Electra : same but for girls w/ dadso 4th Latency stage : ppl think there is no attraction to opposite sex (7-puberty) No evidence on latency stageØ Boys would seek company of other males. Maybe even homoerotic activities with other males.Ø Girls will shun boys and will socialize with other girls.Ø Puberty ends latency stageo 5th Genital stage : reproduction is possible bc puberty is completeØ Reproductively mature and will therefore consider going after heterosexual mates.Ø The origins of homosexuality come thru improper resolution of Oedipus complex.Ø IF the antagonism is with both fear and rage, view of the father gets transformed from “I hate him”therefore “he hates me, but there's nothing I can do about it so “I love it” o Topic 9: Marital and extramarital and aging· More sex in marriage bc time and freedom and a place available and sanctions are positive· Parents encourage newly married couples to have sex so they can have grandkids· 6 Styles of love Hendrick and Hendrick: Love scale test (likert scale) LOVE ATTITUDES SCALE (LAS)o Eros: passionate physical and emotional loveo Ludas: playing/sporting with love; multiple partners at once. Conquest. o Storge: friendship and affections that grows slowly into love. (Maintains love/relationships. “marry your best friend”)o Mania: excessive puppy love or obsessive love; experience great emotional highs and lows; very possessive and often jealous loverso Agape: spiritual love; selfish and altruistic loveo Pragma : love that is driven by the head, not the heart; undemonstrative. Logically choosing a mate for marriage and procreation. o Most dangerous combo is mania and ludasAlso divided into Passionate love or Companionate love. Passionate is initial, intense phase. Lasts approx 2 years and either dissolves or evolves into companionate. Companionate love is a matured love. · Extramarital notes (4 types)ADULTERY: Having intercourse with someone other than spouseo Up to 20% of ppl admitted to having engaged in adultery. o Originally, adultery was woman’s faulto 1. )Covert adultery: secret ando 2. )Consensual adultery: Both spouses agree they won't make big deal out of it; accepted adultery in the relationship.§ 2 types: Spouses set rules for what is allowed,and whether or not to know deetso 3. )extended marriage tropism: adding additional person to bedroom (most often adding second male) **is this correct??** I believe this was where he was talking about “hot wife” and “cuckolds” you can do a google search for those but be warned its NSFW...urban dictionary it It is TROILISM, that is why I couldn’t find it! Oh yes that is the inclusion of another femaleo 4. )plural marriage: aka polygamy. (Mormons) 2 or more couples sharing a household à pop in 70s; fad of wife swapping§ outbreak of herpes and aids due to lax safe-sex practices§ also called swinging or partner swappingo children are taught to believe their parents are sexlessTOPIC: sex and aging· menopause…in a lot of cultures, you aren’t supposed to have sex after menopauseo frequency drops with age· women reach sexual peak in their 30s (Males around 19)· the male’s sexual response decreases; he needs more direct physical stimulation· negative effects of alcohol increase with age· Best approach to engage in sex is have open communication and negotiation· health problems: used to be things that interfered with sexo type 2 diabetes : produces erectile dysfunction over time bc of lack of blood circulationHypertension alsoHeart disease as wellPARAphelia: fetishism, exibitionism, sexual offeses and