HD 204 1nd Edition Lecture 17 Outline of Last Lecture I. BidsII. Responding to BidsIII. Gottman’s VideoIV. Rituals Outline of Current Lecture II. Across the Family Life CycleIII. Goals/Functions of RitualsIV. Couple RitualsV. Intergenerational RitualsVI. Managing RitualsVII. What is IntimacyVIII. Family IntimacyCurrent Lecture- Across the Family Life Cycle:o Formative, special events before the children like an anniversary.o Child-rearing, formed around bath time, eating, and bedtime like storytelling.o Launching, when the kids get older the parents allow sleepovers.o Post-childrearing, when the kids are gone you take a walk together.- Goals/functions of Rituals:o Healthy emotional ties.o Membership change.o Healing.o Identity definition/redefinition.o Rites of passage.o Express beliefs.o Deal with contradiction.- Couple Rituals:o Couple time.o Symbolic. Favorites, private codes, play rituals, and celebrations.o Daily routines and tasks.o Intimacy expression.These notes represent a detailed interpretation of the professor’s lecture. GradeBuddy is best used as a supplement to your own notes, not as a substitute.o Communication.o Pattern/habits/mannerism.o Spiritual.- Intergenerational Rituals:o Grandparents and grandchildren.o Parents and children.o Blended families.- Managing Rituals:o Underutilization.o Overutilization.o Distinctiveness.o Balance in stability.- What is Intimacy:o Presence of being there. Physically. Emotionally. Cognitively.o A feeling of closeness and connectedness that develops through communication between partners.o Martial intimacy involves. A close, familiar and usually affectionate and loving relationship. A deep and detailed knowledge and understanding from close personal experience. Sexual relations.- Family Intimacy:o Interpersonal devotion.o Dimensions of: Intellectual. Emotional. Physical.o Shared knowledge.o Understanding of others.o Close.o
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