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Communication (shared meanings)
a symbolic, transactional process that involves creating and sharing meanings through consistent patterns of interaction
Confirmation
A type of communication feedback that conveys the message to a partner that he or she is valued. Also involves conveying an enthusiasm for the relationship, an interest in its welfare, and a deep and ongoing commitment to making it work
Congruent
a message in which all of its different components (verbal/non-verbal, content/relationship) convey the same meaning
Content level of Communication
The literal content of a message or what is communicated
Conversational style
the unique ways in which individuals shape and frame messages when interacting with others
Framing
the personal, subjective meaning attributed to the metamessages that accompany a literal message.
Message
the information that is exchanged when we communicate. They carry information at 2 levels; content level and relationship level
Metacommunication
communication about the communication process- a process of talking about the communication process that can lead to greater clarity and experience of intimacy
Metamessage
the information conveyed in how a message is expressed "the message about the message". Can be conveyed in the behaviors and non-verbal cues that accompany literal messages
Nonverbal symbols
gestures and behaviors that accompany interaction that have symbolic value attributed to them
Private message system
a system of rules for communication within an intimate relationship. This gives the couple's relationship its distinctive quality, helps organize strategies that will be needed to face the many tasks and issues that will arise, and influences how couples feel about the relationship
Relationship level of communication
the way in which the information contained in how the content of a message is expressed is used to determine how to interpret the literal content of the message
Rule of reciprocity
the tendency for individuals to match the disclosures of their own that are equally revealing
Self-disclosure
the process of revealing personal information about the self
Self esteem
the level of positive feelings individuals have toward themselves. The greater the ___, the more likely he or she is to be open to the verbal and nonverbal expressions of others and to interpret another's communications accurately
Situational adaptability
the ability of individuals to adapt their manner of communication to various social situations
Transaction management
a part of the communication process that fosters intimacy and manages conflict; the ability to establish realistic communication strategies and rules for interaction, and to exercise the self-control needed to keep the communication flowing toward desired goals
Alignment
yield "heart meaning"; talk binds individuals; linking family members to each other like dots in a coloring book; can create connection feelings or rejection feelings
Conflict
in intergenerational models, a strategy for maintaining distance from others and protecting one's sense of self; ____ and disagreement can help maintain an illusion of difference
Fusion
the tendency to submerge one's sense of self in relationships with others, thereby losing the distinctions among emotional and intellectual functioning, self and other
Routine
involve more than one family member, overt behavior, repetition in the form and content of what is done, they have continuity and change, less symbolism, less emotion, and more ordinary behaviors
Ritual
involve more than one family member, overt behavior, repetition in the form and content of what is done, they have continuity and change, more symbolism, more emotion, and more extraordinary behaviors
Symbol
the practice of representing things with symbols or of investing meaning into events or objects
Morphostasis
processes operating within systems that resist changes in existing strategies
Morphogenesis
those processes operating within systems that resist changes in existing strategies
Adaptability
the capacity of the system to change its rules and strategies in response to situational or developmental stress
Stress
information transmitted to the system about whether established interactional patterns require alteration
Context
the set of circumstances or facts that surround a particular event, situation, individual or family
Structure
the invisible set of functional demands that organizes the way family members interact with one another over time
Subsystem
a group formed within a larger system that shares common functions or other features such as gender, generation, or interest
Hierarchy
the idea that well organized systems have clear distinctions between the levels of the system; clear lines of authority in families between generations usually
Parentification
when power and control rests with the children, or when parents rely on their children for nurture, support and care; can undermine the ability of the family to address the needs of the children responsibly and increases likelihood that the family will become dysfunctional
Boundaries
the concept used to delineate one system or subsystem from other systems or subsystems, or from the surrounding environment
Disengagement
the lack of involvement among family members that results from rigid boundaries
Enmeshment
the over-involvement among family members that results from diffuse boundaries
Alliance
a pattern of interaction formed when two family members share an interest with one another that is not shared by others
Coalition
an interactional pattern characterized by one family member siding with a second member against a third
Cross-generational coalition
an inappropriate alliance between one parent and a child against the other parent that undermines the executive functions and authority of the parental subsystem
Adaptation
how the family reorganizes its structure in response to internal demands and external social or environmental events
Generation
one's place or position within a kinship structure (parent, child, grandparent, etc).
Generational transmission
when families tend to transmit family styles to their children (ideally effective strategies and styles that will contribute to the functionality and health of future generations)
Cross generational alliance (intergenerational)
instances in which family members from separate generations (mother and child) form a relational alliance to the exclusion of other family members of that generation. Such an alliance often occurs because of the failure or absence of normal generational bonds
Acculturation
a process of learning about a new culture and deciding what aspects are to be retained or sacrificed from the culture of origin
Assimilation
the process by which a minority group gradually adopts the customs and attitudes of the dominant culture
Culture
a group of people who share particular habits, customs, rituals, concepts and interpretations of the world because of geography, historical period, religion and other factors that play a role in establishing a degree of homogeneity of their views

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