Slide 1Class OutlineIntimacy (Newman, 2015, p. 465)Slide 4Slide 5Intimacy Development (Feldman, 2015, p. 333)Slide 7Labeling theory of passionate love (Feldman, 2015, p. 334)Slide 9Slide 10Isolation (Newman, 2015, pp. 468-471)Love Styles Chart (Wheeler, Spring 2012, Slide 54)Dating Scripts (Arnett, 2013, p. 242; Santrock, 2012, p. 319)Slide 14Slide 15Brown’s Developmental Sequence Model (Brown, 1999)Slide 17Class ReviewEarly Adulthood: Psychosocial CrisisHans Saint-Eloi Cadely, Ph.D.HDF 201Spring 201603/01/2016∗Discuss intimacy development in early adulthood.∗Discuss Erikson’s sixth stage of psychosocial development.∗Discuss the beginning of intimacy development.Class Outline∗Intimacy – “the ability to experience an open, supportive, tender relationship with another person without fear of losing one’s own identity in the process” (Newman, 2015, p. 465). Physical and emotional connection ∗http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=guinBnWWuKEIntimacy(Newman, 2015, p. 465)∗Stage 6: Intimacy vs. Isolation (Young Adulthood)- The main task as you become an adult is to develop and intimate relationship;∗Selflessness- thinking of others over yourself∗Sexuality- physically pleasing your partner ∗Deep devotion- the deep emotional connection∗Need for belongingness∗Prime adaptive ego qualities: Love∗Core pathology: Exclusivity, excluding oneself from othersErikson’s Psychosocial Development(Feldman, 2015, pp. 332-333; Newman, 2015, p. 465-466; Santrock, 2015, pp. 438-439)∗Derived from Newman, 2015, Table 11.3, p. 466Romantic Attachment Styles(Bartholomew, 1990; Newman, 2015, pp. 466-467)∗Matching Hypothesis- two people with similar levels of physical attractiveness become romantically involved. (more important to men)∗Consensual validation- two people with similar values and attitudes becoming romantically involved. -Stimulus-value-role (SVR) theory-a relationships intimacy develops in three stages;∗Stimulus stage-start solely on physical attraction∗Value stage-then its based on similarities and values, outlook on life∗Role stage- based on specific roles, decide if they want to be exclusive∗Boyfriend-girlfriend/ husband-wifeIntimacy Development(Feldman, 2015, p. 333)∗Romantic love – love characterized as sexual and fascination∗Also called passionate love or eros.∗Most often occurs early in the relationship.∗Mostly associated with adolescents and college students.∗Sexual yearning is the most important component.∗Can be associated with fear and rejection∗Affectionate love – love characterized as having a deep caring feelings for someone else. (develops later in the relationship)∗Also called companionate love.∗Most often occurs later in the relationship.∗Mostly associated with adults.Construction of Romantic Love(Feldman, 2015, p. 334; Santrock, 2015, p. 440)∗Labeling theory of passionate love: How do you know that you are in love∗Intense physiological arousal- jealousy, sexual arousal∗Situational cues- love is the only appropriate feeling that can describe what you’re feelingLabeling theory of passionate love(Feldman, 2015, p. 334)Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love(Arnett, 2013, p. 245; Feldman, 2015, p. 334-335; Newman, 2015, pp. 472-473; Santrock, 2015, p. 440)IntimacyPassion*commitmentConsummate loveIntimacy Passion CommitmentLiking Yes No NoInfatuation No Yes NoEmpty Love No No YesRomantic love Yes Yes NoCompanionate loveYes No YesFatuous No Yes YesConsummate loveYes Yes YesComponents of Sternberg’s Theory of Love(Arnett, 2013, p. 245; Feldman, 2015, p. 335)∗Contributors of isolation: the fear or unwillingness to develop a close, meaningful relationship∗Social anxiety∗Loneliness∗Transient loneliness-lonely for a short period of time∗Situational loneliness-lonely due to extreme situations∗Chronic loneliness-lonely for a long period of time∗Depression ∗Fragile identity- the perception of being involved in a relationship means you will lose sense of self∗Sexual disorders∗Hypoactive sexual desire- having a lack of interest in sexual activities ∗Compulsive sexual behavior- being obsessed with sexual activities∗Situational factors∗Divergent spheres of interest- two different intrests bad match∗Enmeshment- to invested and dependent in the relationship Isolation(Newman, 2015, pp. 468-471)Love Styles Chart(Wheeler, Spring 2012, Slide 54)∗Dating scripts – “the cognitive models that adolescents and adults use to guide and evaluate dating interactions” (Santrock, 2012, p. 319).∗Proactive script∗More common for men∗Initiating the relationship, making the first move. gives men more power in the relationship∗Reactive script∗More common for women- more receptive to the relationship ∗More focus on enjoying the relationshipDating Scripts(Arnett, 2013, p. 242; Santrock, 2012, p. 319)Adolescent Romantic Relationships in Last 18 Months(Carver, Joyner, & Udry, 2003)Figure adapted from:Carver, J. Joyner, K. & Udry, J. R. (2003). National estimates of adolescent romantic relationships. In Paul (Ed.), Adolescent romantic relations and sexual behavior: Theory, research, and practical implications (pp. 23-56). Mahwah, NJ: Lawrence Erlbaum Associates.Age of Onset of Romantic Activity(Santrock, 2012, p. 315; Fig. 9.5)∗Initiation phase-focuses on adolescence, when they are becoming more confident in building romantic relationships. .∗Status phase-early to middle adolescence- who they chose to date can influence their peer status.∗Affection phase- middle to late adolescence- seeking a deeper connection with their romantic partners and they become more sexually active. ∗Bonding phase-late adolescence early adulthood-develop life long relationships with their partners. Brown’s Developmental Sequence Model(Brown, 1999)∗Involvement ∗Partner selection∗Early adolescents: Personality and prestige factors.∗Late adolescents: Sharing similar interests, having set goals for the future (Roscoe et al., 1987).∗Content ∗Quality ∗Cognitive and emotional processes∗Early adolescents: recreation and status.∗Late adolescents: companionship, sexual activity, and mate selection (Roscoe et al., 1987).Collins’ Five Feature Framework(Collins, 2003; Roscoe, Diana, & Brooks II, 1987)∗What is Erikson’s sixth stage of psychosocial development?∗Name the four romantic attachment styles.∗What are the stages of the stimulus-value-role theory?∗What are the components of Sternberg’s