Discussion 357 20 Feb Discussion 357 20 Feb wma Audio recording started 11 05 AM Thursday February 20 2014 Thursday February 20 2014 11 04 AM Parenting Styles 1 Authoritarian a Hi control b Lo warmth i Kid of authoritarian parent will not be very exploratory 1 Parent dependent 2 Do have a tendency to go through a rebellious phase 2 Authoritative or Democratic a Hi warmth b Hi control i Kids more balanced out were controlled but then eventually loosened the rope 3 Permissive or Laze Fair a Lo Control b Hi warmth i Kids tend to have the most problems during adolescents Attachment Styles Attachment is very important to brain development 1 Secure 56 56 a Relatively easy to be close to others b Depending on other people nd people on them i Responsive parent ii When kid needed attention they were given it by care giver iii If parent leaves the room 2 Avoidant 25 23 a Don t like being close b Get nervous around people or when people get close to them i Not very attached to parents b Difficult to allow themselves to depend on anyone c Don t like being intimately close to anyone emotional 3 Anxious Ambivalent 19 20 a Like being really close to partner worried about being abandoned b Find others are reluctant to get as close as they want to be c Worries that lover doesn t love them as much d Wants to get close to the point that they want to merge with partner i As kids flip out when care taker leaves Communicative function of language Noncomm functions of languages goes in order of lecture readings