we expect more from technology and less from each othertechnology appeals to us most where we are most vulnerablewere lonely but were afraid of intimacypeople are designing technology with the illusion of intimacy but no demand of friendshipour phones are changing our mind and hearwe can put our attention wherever we want it to bewe will never have to be alonethere will always be someone to listenthe moment people are alone they fidget and panic and become anxiousbeing alone feels like a problem that needs to be solvedpeople try to solve it with communicationit doesn’t solve the underlying problemit is shaping a new way of beingwe use technology to define ourselves to share our thoughts and feelings by sharing them“I share therefore I am”ability to be separate to gather ourselveswe want to feel alive but underappreciate things and peoplefragile sense of selfalways being connected will make us feel less aloneif were not able to be alone were going to be more lonelyif we don’t teach our children to be alone they will only know how to be lonelypeople think too much talking may spoil the romancewe grew up with digital technologyreclaim places for conversationwe all need to listen to each othertechnology redefines human connectiontechnology needs to lead us backSPH-R 142 1st Edition Lecture 24Sherry Turkle- Our devise change who we are- Being together while not being together- Remove self’s from grieve and go into your phones- People are setting themselves up for trouble when relating to each other and self reflection- People are getting used to being alone together- People want to be together but want to be elsewhere- People want to go in and out of all the places- People want to have control of their attention- You want to go somewhere but only want to pay attention to the things that interest you- You can hide from someone when your with someone - People don’t want to be interrupted - Goldy locks effect- not too close, not too far, just right- We get to touch and edit on technology - Human relationships are messy and demanding and people clean them up with technology- We sacrifice conversation - People shortchange themselves- People stop caring because of this - We learn from conversations with others to learn how to have conversations withourselves- “id rather text than talk”- feeling that no one is listening - internet provides people with automatic listeners - people pretend empathy is the real thing- robots These notes represent a detailed interpretation of the professor’s lecture. GradeBuddy is best used as a supplement to your own notes, not as a substitute.- we expect more from technology and less from each other - technology appeals to us most where we are most vulnerable - were lonely but were afraid of intimacy - people are designing technology with the illusion of intimacy but no demand of friendship- our phones are changing our mind and hear- we can put our attention wherever we want it to be- we will never have to be alone - there will always be someone to listen - the moment people are alone they fidget and panic and become anxious- being alone feels like a problem that needs to be solved- people try to solve it with communication- it doesn’t solve the underlying problem - it is shaping a new way of being - we use technology to define ourselves to share our thoughts and feelings by sharing them- “I share therefore I am”- ability to be separate to gather ourselves - we want to feel alive but underappreciate things and people- fragile sense of self - always being connected will make us feel less alone- if were not able to be alone were going to be more lonely- if we don’t teach our children to be alone they will only know how to be lonely- people think too much talking may spoil the romance - we grew up with digital technology - reclaim places for conversation - we all need to listen to each other - technology redefines human connection - technology needs to lead us back - how can we use digital technology to make this life the life we can