Wednesday, December 10, 20149.4 Exiting Deviance!!1. Exiting Deviant Careers! Push out!! 1. Factors outside of deviant world that that push you out!! ! - Aging and health!! ! - Loss of connections and friends!! ! - Increased risk, more people know of you!! ! - Burnout!! ! - Thrills and excitement of early years turns into paranoia!! ! - Arrest and jail!! ! - Injury and death! Pull out out!! 1. Factors outside of deviant world that pull you out!! ! - Family and significant other!! ! - Friends!! ! - Links to respectable social circles!! ! - Legit interests and hobbies!!2. Shifts and Oscillations!4 Shifts and Oscillations:!! 1. Aging in the Career (burnout)!! 2. Phasing out!! ! - Like drifting in, people also drift out!1Wednesday, December 10, 2014!!!3 factors inhibiting leaving!! ! ! 1. Hedonism and materialism!! ! ! 2. Commitment to the occupation of drug trafficking!! ! ! 3. Difficulty finding another way to earn a living!!!4 Patterns of Quitting!! ! ! 1. They postponed quitting until after one last "big deal"!! ! ! 2. They planned to change immediately, but didn't!! ! ! 3. Money runs out!! ! ! 4. They tried to move into another line of work !! 3. Reentry: phasing out was usually temporary (oscillations)!!!2 types of re-entries!! ! ! - Comeback from a forced withdrawal!! ! ! - Relapse from the voluntary withdrawal!! 4. Career Shifts: common after re-entry!!!3 types:!!!!1. Lateral - taking on a new specialization!! ! ! ! ex. Switching from piloting to operating a stash house, trafficking pot to coke!!!!2. Vertical - continue in the same deviant career on a new level!! ! ! ! ex.. quitting smuggling to return to dealing!!!!3. Straddling - They left, but continued to dabble in drug trafficking !!!!!2Wednesday, December 10, 20143. Andrew Yip: Gay Male Christian Couples and Sexual Exclusivity:!Three Structural Factors Enabling WCC!! Activity:!! 1. Category A: In a Monogamous partnership!! ! - Expectationally and behaviorally exclusive (9)!! ! - Name: !! ! - # of couples counted in the category: 9!! ! - Average rating of sex life: 7.6!! ! - Avg rating of partnerships in general: 9!! 2. Category B: Seems Monogamous but one is cheating!! ! - Expectationally exclusive but not behaviorally (8)!! ! - Name: !! ! - # of couples counted in the category: 8!! ! - Average rating of sex life: 7.2!! ! - Avg rating of partnerships in general: 8.4!! 3. Category C: Open Relationship!! ! - Expectationally and behaviorally non-exclusive (13)!! ! - Name: !! ! - # of couples counted in the category: 13!! ! - Average rating of sex life: 6.7!! ! - Avg rating of partnerships in general: 8.8!! 4. Category D: !! ! - Expectationally non-exclusive and behaviorally exclusive !! ! - Name: !! ! - # of couples counted in the category: 0!! ! - Average rating of sex life: N/A!3Wednesday, December 10, 2014! ! - Avg rating of partnerships in general: N/A!! Existential Obstacles: !! ! - !4. Jenna Howard: Obstacles to Exiting Emotional Disorder Identities:!! 1. Existential Obstacles:!! ! 1. Letting go of a Marked Identity!! ! ! - They are transitioning from a culturally "marked" into an "unmarked" category. Society offers no marked ex-identities!! ! 2. Limiting Consequences of the Disorder Identity!! ! ! - The disorder identity had limiting consequences for their self-perceptions. It had developed into a master status, and led them to build their entire lives around identity!! ! 3. Identity Void!! ! ! - Because simply replacing the old identity with a different disordered one could have the same consequences, they are reluctant to replace it with another label!! ! 4. Feeling Unsettled!! 2. Interactional !! ! 1. Deserter Complex!! ! ! - feeling like they are leaving their other group of deviance behind!! ! 2. Reserve Stigmatization!! ! ! - They dear being cast out or ostracized by the group!! 3. Cultural !! ! 1. Conflation of professional and popular cultures!! ! ! - As a society we have to come to be dominated by the expert domain of psychological professional and the popular self-help culture fueled by the medial !! ! 2. Domination by psycho-medical industrial comple!4Wednesday, December 10, 2014!12/12/14: !Typology of Gay Male Christian Couples!! 1. The Faithful - behaviorally exclusive, expectationally exclusive!! ! Ex: !! 2. Idea Type - behaviorally exclusive, expectationally non-exclusive!! ! Ex: They were not expected to be exclusive but indeed they were!! 3. Cheaters - behaviorally non-exclusive, expectationally exclusive!! 4. Swingers - behaviorally non-exclusive, expectationally non-exclusive!! ! -EX: Open relationship!!!! *There is very little structure to guide these couples vs. marriage provides norms/values for guidance !!Category A: The Faithful!! - 3 reasons for sexual exclusivity!! ! 1. Total commitment!! ! ! - They consider sexual exclusivity a sign of their total commitment to the relationship!! ! 2. Complete Mutual Satisfaction!! ! ! - They considered that having sex with someone else would indicate their lack of satifaction with their partner!! ! 3. Convential Christian Ethics!!!Cat c: Swingers!5Wednesday, December 10, 2014! -3 reasons for non-exclusivity!! ! 1. Search for Variety and Excitement!! ! ! - They like the allure of the new and different!! ! 2. Absence of the Normative Guidelines!! ! ! -In this they are influenced by the norms and morality of th egay subcaulture, !! ! 3. Egalitarianism!! ! ! - Many considered a marriage license restrictive for the wives only, they considered it a cheating licnse for the husband! !Cat B: Cheaters!! 4 regulatory Mechanism!! ! 1. Ground rules!! ! ! -couples make rules for what kidn of extra-relational infidelity is acceptable and what is not!! ! 2. concealment!! ! ! - Dont ask dont tell!! ! 3. Disclosure!! ! ! - Through complete mutual honesty they signify that they privilege the relationship with the partner by telling him about the infidelity. They show that they intimacy and sharing of info is more important than the sex!! ! 4. Preventing Sex from Developing into Affair!! ! ! -Keep to a few casual acts!! ! ! - Holds sex back from developing greater meaning and attachment